6 - Kilo, Lima & Georgia

I know I told you already about Lima's confession of being in love with me, and how he wanted me to move to Georgia in September. And I told you in a later post that he makes me so happy and always manages to get rid of my stress and bad days. Well, I've decided to go. In September I will move to Georgia. I've discussed it with my parents (all of them lol) and everyone is surprisingly really supportive. I've always been very impulsive in my decision making, and it's never gotten me anywhere good (except a lot of really awesome road trips, memories and pictures that I will never regret) but they do know one really important factor... I have never been impulsive towards guys. I do not take risks, I do not take leaps, I do not commit, I do not depend on anyone, I do not trust them or rely on them or get attached. So, with this decision I am doing D. All of the above. I think that's why my parents are being so supportive. They know I must be serious about the way I feel and the direction I want to go, to be willing to do all of this. It's a long term committed relationship, living in the same household, sharing my bed, the same toilet, and he'll know everything I do, everyone I talk to, and everywhere I go.... Like a parent...... Yikes. Before I talk myself out of this one. Back to the good parts.
I can wake up to his beautiful face everyday =)
I can make pancakes for TWO =)
I can actually have a reason to cook dinner, rather than go out =)
I have someone who can wash my back =)
I can probably bribe him into some foot rubs =)
I can finally have a dog again! =)
I'll have someone I can tell everything to, and will still love me no matter what =)
I can enjoy my love of grocery shopping again =)
I can complain about the PT clothes all over the floor, camo's in the living room, and muddy boots in the hallway (which isn't a bad thing, but it's so wife-ly to say something like that) =)
I can actually have the opportunity to make gorgeous blonde babies in the future, if I so chose to finally do so lol (no smiley face for that one, I haven't decided if that's good for bad lol of course I want kids, but maybe in like, 5 years)

So, see this isn't so bad. A lot more pros than cons. Did I mention he's fantastic in bed? That's always a huge deal breaker. Ha.

So, when I told him this decision, I told him not without Kilo, my best friend. So, he said no problem. We'll move into a community, where she can have her apartment very close by us and I can see her all the time. I had already talked to her about it and she was all for moving to Georgia.
Tonight, however, the conversation with her didn't go so well... I don't know how she mixed it all up, when I said "I think I've made up my mind to move in with Lima... Would you be interested at all in moving into an apartment in GA?" HOW she heard (selective hearing maybe) "I want to move into an apartment with you in Georgia so I can pursue a relationship with Lima," I have no bloody idea...
So Kilo and I got into an argument tonight. She says I'm stupid to move in with him, I'm ditching her to live with a guy, it's not going to work out and I'm just going to have to move out after a year anyway, on and on and on.
Some points, valid. Most points, spoiled and selfish. The latter because I both spoil her, and give myself all to her, all the time. She is a feminist. Hates guys with a passion. Always negative. No risks, no leaps, no commitment. Sound familiar? Well, apparently they were more of 'rules' to her than preferences. And now that mine have changed, it's like I'm breaking some sort of pact. I can see her point in that I'm rushing things a bit. I even see her reasoning when she says her and I should move in together, and I could see Lima whenever. But here's how that would work... Lima and I are extremely busy people and most of the time I work 2 jobs. We'd try to see each other all we could and that would include almost always sleeping at one of our houses... So why live in two separate places if we'll always be together? It's a waste of money, I still want to save for a house, and I still have to pay for school every semester. And aside from all this, she's not the most organized person. And I could never tolerate the mess in her bathroom at all times. And her dog, has an eating disorder. Gets sick after most every meal. I'm all set with all of the above.
So of course Kilo and I will be fine by tomorrow. She'll pick her own place for her and her dog. We'll be neighbors. I'll wake up to Lima everyday. And life will go on as we know it =)

xo
kay_ski